I just answered an interesting question about the difference between submission and surrender while dancing in the role of a follower:
I think that the difference between submission and surrender is that submission is forced and surrender is voluntary. But I think of the follower's role as less of a surrender and more as an act of accompaniment. The follower accompanies the leader in the direction, tempo, and even the step the leader proposes, but the follower can still insert their own voice. An active follower can embellish that step or, in some cases, even object to a step or propose a different step.
If there is a surrendering, it happens with both partners. We surrender to each other, to the music, and to the flow of the ronda (dance floor). As a leader, I often surrender to a proposition that I am feeling from my partner. I also surrender to the music and to the other dancers on the dance floor. For example, I might want to lead something large and dramatic, but if I am on a crowded dance floor then I have to surrender that desire for the wellbeing and comfort of the other dancers.
Join us for a fun 5 day Tango Cruise from Charleston, SC to the Bahamas hosted by tango instructors, Clint Rasucher of Atlanta and Mauro Marcone of Houston! We had a group of 47 people go last year, and expect about the same this year!
We will have workshops on the days that we are at sea and milongas each night. Right now the tentative schedule is:
Wednesday - February 20th
Evening: Welcome Milonga
Thursday - February 21st
Daytime: Workshop and Practice
Friday - February 22nd
Daytime: Docked at Princess Cays (Carnival's Private Beach)
Saturday - February 23rd
Daytime: Docked in Nassau, The Bahamas
Sunday - February 24th
Daytime: Workshop and Practice
Tango Ecstasy Cruise Rates
All Prices are based on DOUBLE OCCUPANCY! If you want a private room then you will be charged double and the deposit will be double! You can register as a single person either find somone else to register and share a room with OR I can help you find a suitable roommate from other single people who have registered!
Type of Room
185 square feet. Two twin beds (push together for king). Chair. Full bathroom with shower. 3 Closets. Desk. pictures
$675 per person
$150 Deposit (Use Link Below). Then I will send you a bill for 1/2 of the remainder and then the other 1/2 will be due Dec 1.
185 Square Feet. Two twin beds (push together for king). Chair. Desk. Full bathroom with shower. 3 Closets. Picture window or 2 portholes. pictures
$750 per person
$150 Deposit (Use Link Below). Then I will send you a bill for 1/2 of the remainder and then the other 1/2 will be due Dec 1.?
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185 Square Feet. Two twin beds (push together for king). Balcony w Two Chairs and small table. Chair. Desk. Full bathroom with shower. 3 Closets. Picture window or 2 portholes. pictures
Approximately $1,100 per person
Junior Suite (2 people sharing room)
220 Square Feet. Two twin beds (or push together for king) and single sofa bed. Sofa and coffee table. Mini-Fridge. Desk and seat. Full bathroom with shower. 3 closets. 30 Square Foot Private balcony with patio and Lounge chairs. pictures
Approximately $1,300 per person
Grand Suite (2 people sharing room)
330 Square Feet. Two twin beds (or push together for king) and double sofa bed. Sofa and coffee table. Mini-Fridge. Desk and seat. Full bathroom with separate shower and whirlpool bathtubs. Walk-in closet. 70 Square Foot Private Balcony with patio and Lounge chairs. pictures
Approximately $1400 per person
* All of the rates below include your room, taxes, port fees, and tango event fees. These rates are based on double occupancy, so you will be sharing a room with another person. If you already have a friend going and want to room with them, then you can specify that after you signup; otherwise, we will book you with another person of your same gender.
*** Any payments (other than deposits) are 100% refundable until December 1st, 45% refundable up to January 1st, 20% refundable up to January 15th, and 0% refundable after February 1st.
**** If you are traveling with a person that does not dance tango, contact me to discuss rates that do not include tango fees for them.
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We had a great time on our Tango Cruise to the Bahamas in February. 48 of us tango dancers left from Charleston, South Carolina on a 5 day cruise to the Bahamas. We danced every night and had workshops on the days that the ship was at sea.
This week's tanda is a beautiful, dramatic instrumental set by Osvaldo Pugliese.
The first song of this set, "Recuerdo" is considered by many a turning point in the composition of Argentine Tango music. It was composed in 1924 and has a complexity that had not been seen before. There is some debate over who the composer was. It was originally registered by Adolfo Pugliese, Osvaldo Pugliese's father, but Osvaldo said that he gave it to his father to register because his father was having a hard time financially. Apparently, it was later re-registered under Osvaldo's name. Some also say that it belongs to Osvaldo's brother, who left the composition behind after moving away. I would go with Osvaldo's story, since the music sounds so similar to his other compositions. If it was Osvaldo's composition, then he wrote it at the age of 19.
The title means "memory" and the original title was "Recuerdo para mis amigos (Memory of my friends)." Pugliese said that he wrote it in honor of his friends who used to meet at a café called La Cueva del Chancho (The Pig's Cave).
And the other songs in this tanda are just as strong with Pugliese's characteristic flow of melodic tenderness marked with strong punctuations of rhythm.
Teachers: Clint Rauscher and Shelley Brooks
Song: Solamente Ella by Carlos di Sarli with Jorge Durán 1945
More at: Tangology101.com
The main focus of this class is the idea of having the follower change weight in order to enter into cross system rather than the leader and dancing slowly and elegantly with women taking an active role. Then we added a short figure including a cruzada (cross), with a parada (stop) mordida (bite).